I think it could be smth like "If you really mean what you say then you should reconsider your decision to spend your life with me" even if it feels like one can say "die then"
I asked why he was still with me if I made him feel that way, and he said bc the thought of not seeing our son every day makes him feel worse.
I had no clue of any of these feelings and we’ve been in couples therapy since October. I thought we were getting better.
What’s the right response to your spouse telling you that you make them want to die
the hole in my chest is back and aching. I hate that I can’t make it stop.
